commitment ceremonies
You have decided that you want to take the next step and commit to a life as partners. Whether you are spiritual, inter-faith, non-religious, religious, or somewhere in between, I am committed to creating a personalized ceremony that incorporates your beliefs and values.
I want to be part of your special day. As a celebrant unaffiliated with any specific religion or organization, I will design, create, and perform a unique commitment ceremony just for you. Your ceremony can be simple, traditional, contemporary, or as elaborate and eclectic as you desire. Regardless of the style, it will be perfect for you. I believe your ceremony should be a personal reflection of your current relationship and future years together.
As I certainly hope that same-sex marriage is once again legal in California before long, if we have your commitment cremony before that day comes, when it does, and you want to have the additional status and recognition that comes from a marriage license, I will happily work with you to make that happen as well - at no additional cost.
Officiant Services
- An initial meeting (in person or by Skype by phone)
- As much phone and email communication as needed to develop your ceremony
- Preparation of a couple-centered ceremony that reflects your love, dreams, beliefs, values, and cultural traditions
- Assistance with choosing or writing your vows
- A touch base meeting to discuss the draft ceremony and fine tune it to perfection, if desired - many couples prefer to do this via email
- Professional and punctual Officiant for your ceremony, dressed in your choice of attire
- Elegant printed copy of your vows and ceremony
- Upon request, presence/assistance at the rehearsal (may be an extra fee)
Fee Information
Fees are structured to support time dedicated to writing and designing your ceremony, as every ceremony is custom. Factors include meeting time and travel, as well as time to write and officiate your ceremony.
The Officiant Fee is usually $550 but since every ceremony is unique, please e-mail for a quote, and feel comfortable in knowing that all services and fees will be discussed openly and agreed upon in writing prior to booking. Additional services, such as attendance at the rehearsal, or travel beyond a certain distance from zip code 92104, may be extra.
A non-refundable retainer fee of $100 is required to hold your special date with the remainder due on or before the day of the ceremony.
Cancellation
Ceremonies cancelled less than 30 calendar days prior to the event will be billed in full.
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